Knowing What to Say to Grieving Families at Funeral Homes
It’s not often that people find themselves at a complete loss for words. But many times, they’ll struggle to find the words to say when they’re standing in front of grieving families at a funeral home in Rockford, IL. What can you say when you’re speaking with someone who just had their entire world shaken by the loss of a loved one?
You shouldn’t say, “I know exactly how you feel,” to the family since you don’t actually know how they feel, even if you experienced a loss of your own recently. You also shouldn’t say, “At least your loved one is in a better place now,” since that won’t provide them with much comfort, either. Instead, try one of these phrases on for size. It’ll help a grieving family out and let them know they’re not alone.
“I’m so sorry for your loss”
If you have no idea what to say to a grieving family during a funeral service, it’s best to speak honestly from the heart without getting too fancy. Saying something like, “I’m so sorry for your loss,” to express your sincere sympathy to them. It’s not the most original thing to say, but it will get your point across and help you avoid saying the wrong thing.
“Your loved one was such an amazing person”
Did you have a special relationship with the deceased? If so, use that to your advantage when you get in front of their grieving family. Whether the person was your neighbor, your teacher, or one of your good friends, let the family know how amazing they truly were. The family will really appreciate you taking the time to acknowledge the impact their loved one had on you.
“I remember the time…”
One of the best parts about funerals is that they bring people who haven’t seen one another in a long time together and allow them to share memories about a person. Do you have a memory that a family might like to hear about? If you can, take about 30 seconds and share it with them. You don’t want to pick a memory that’s going to drag on for five minutes. But if you can find a quick memory to share, it’ll go a long way towards helping the family out. It might even make them smile a little during their dark days.
“I love you and your family so much”
When all else fails, let a grieving family know how much they’re loved by you and everyone else in attendance at a funeral service. They’ll feel your support when you tell them that you love them and are there for them. And no matter how times people say, “I love you,” at a funeral home, grieving families will never get tired of hearing it.
If your family is just starting to go through the grieving process after the loss of a loved one, Collins & Stone Funeral Home can help you make your way through it. We offer grief counseling that will allow your family to mourn a loved one’s loss in peace. Contact us at (815) 965-1515 today to take advantage of our funeral services or stop by 128 S 5th St, Rockford, IL 61104 to speak with one of our funeral directors.